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Intimacy with Life

1:1 Mentorship for Men.

Online & In-Person.

A practical and somewhat mystical mentorship that invites you into a radical new way of connecting with yourself, others and the world around you.

I appreciate men out there are busy - fathering, holding down careers, focussing on passions, pursuits, career goals or supporting the family and community networks.

That’s why my work is focussed on tangible, easily applicable ways to drastically enhance your intimacy and sexuality.

I support you to find new pathways for ecstatic pleasure, to experience more love, feel more vitality and watch that ripple out into all corners of your life.

Can you feel that there is MUCH more that is possible for the life that you’re living?

If so, you’re in the right place.

I support you to create a life of relational intimacy, erotic and sexual fulfilment and most importantly, a deep connection with yourself.

I see our sexual vitality and wellness as one part of the whole of our lives. Any challenges or desires we face in our sexual lives often reflect wider patterns, habits or themes in our lives.

I help you to unwind patterns, bring more love and pleasure to your life and embrace the fullness of your masculinity: strong and soft, alive, vital and brimming with possibility.

Areas my online and in-person mentorships explore:

  • Feel more at home in your skin

  • Prioritise pleasure and embrace your sensual side

  • Live from a more heart-centred and authentic place

  • Use your sexual energy as fuel for creativity, leadership and business

  • Connect with your primal masculine aliveness

  • Address challenges around intimacy, sexual wellness and vitality (ED, PE, porn over-use)

  • Unlock areas of uncertainty or stagnation in your sexuality and relationships

  • Navigate sexual openings and awakenings

  • Navigate conflicting desires in life and relationship styles

  • Bring more intimacy into long-term relationships and learn about dynamics that may inhibit intimacy

  • Be supported through endings, breakups/breakdowns, divorce

  • Bring cognitive awareness learnt through therapy into embodied action

  • Connect with your joy and playfulness.

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Three pillars

Each mentorship follows through a curriculum exploring three main pillars: somatics, sex and soul.

You can expect bespoke practices, guidance and teachings as we move through each aspect of the mentorship.

However our work together will reflect your unique needs, desires and natural pacing.

Having worked with over 600 clients I know there is no ‘one way’. This mentorship is not a linear march towards a goal, it is a fluid and expansive opportunity to meet yourself in totally new ways. This requires a blend of structure and flow to meet the experience that is authentic, expansive and applicable to your daily life.

The gold is in the journey.

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Somatics

Your body is your vessel.

The cornerstone of a healthy, vital and meaningful sexual expression lies in self-connection first.

We’ll explore guided somatic practices and tools to feel more alive, at home in your skin, feel more confident and loving towards your body and sex.

Men who have done a lot of inner work and therapy also often need support to land mental awareness in embodied feeling.

We start here.

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Sex

Excellent lovers know their bodies, desires and have strong self awareness.

You will learn to move energy through the body, develop greater awareness of different types of touch and increase your intuition and feeling sense.

This includes self pleasure. Self inquiry. Building skills and tools for sensuality, slowness and embodied sexuality.

You will need to slow - right - down.

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Soul

A man in alignment with his body, heart and sexual expression is a man in alignment with his life.

Understand who YOU really are, what you desire and need to explore evolutionary love-making.

This mentorship invites you to FEEL what you really want from your life. How do you want to feel? Who do you want to be with? What makes you feel alive?

We’ll map the connection between sexuality, creativity, connection to nature, business, purpose, relationships & fatherhood.

The Framework

The mentorship is held by the 3 pillars. They are our focus. Within that, the tools and ‘ways there’ include:

  • Guided embodiment practices (somatic inquiry, yoga philosophy, trauma-awareness, Tantra and Neo-Tantra)

  • Guided energy work and practices

  • Guided Meditation and self-inquiry

  • Coaching and guidance

  • Nature connection (daily connection and land-journeys)

  • Creative expression, journal prompts and prompts I provide

  • Ritual honour moments of importance and processes of change

  • Hands-on immersive sessions (4 + hours) available for those who want to work in-person. This includes bodywork, energy work, breath work and immersive teachings I have developed from my practice as a Tantric masseuse and erotic guide.

    • 12 weeks of personalised and immersive mentoring (1 x 1 hour call every 2 weeks over Zoom).

    • Guided somatic and self-inquiry practices tailored to you.

    • Prep form, introductory call and closing reflections and resources after each session.

    • Voice note access via the messaging app Signal. Includes wrap-around support: sharing, witnessing, support or feedback. 

    • Option to extend if we both feel this is supportive, there is more to explore and we’re a good fit.

    • £1500 paid in full 

    • 2 instalments of £750

    • Bespoke in-person sessions in Cornwall or elsewhere by arrangement.

    • 3 × 1 hour coaching packages start at £350.

Book a discovery call to explore working together.

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What others say.

  • 'Working with Olivia helped me to rediscover confidence and connection with my body and at an important time for me. I thoroughly recommend working with Olivia for anyone looking for deeper connection between their internal and external world.'

    Nate, UK

  • 'The energy and calmness has stayed with me since our first session together. It’s things like palpitations due to stress which I haven’t had since and the simple, but effective breathwork techniques we practiced meant I’m much more calmer in myself. I’ve also been working on building that sexual energy and really feeling it move around the body. I’m looking forward to seeing you again in the near future.'

    Joachim, UK

  • ‘Let’s just say that it was certainly a “Deep Dive”! Olivia was more than just the safe pair of hands I’d hoped for; she helped me reconnect with myself with such sensitivity and kindness too. I felt that she was extremely present during my very personal and intense journey. I knew there was a deeper soul somewhere inside me but life had swept that away long ago. I had no idea that this work would prove to be so impactful in helping me discover a much deeper physical sensuality/sexuality that I’ve been longing for, not to mention helping to reconnect me with my own body. The final session resulted in an almost overwhelming sensation of tingling and vibrations across my whole body; a real awakening of what may be possible if I continue to be curious.’

    Dan Maiden, UK

  • Working with Olivia over a six-month period was deeply transformational. She is amazing at what she does, meeting me in my awakening process with such wisdom and presence. Her guidance is deeply embodied and rooted in lived experience, (and I always felt seen and safe to express myself.) Through our work together, I developed a felt understanding of Kundalini as earth energy. This grounded my awakening and expanded my connection to eros, realising that it is so much more than sexual energy, it is life force. By opening to and allowing myself to flow with the current of eros, I now sense the awakening process as one of expansion and contraction, and am able to move through it with greater awareness and softness. Olivia has allowed me to feel the aches of my soul and to envision what I truly desire from life. Together, we worked through blockages in my voice and fears around expression that had been holding me back. By the end of the mentorship, I held my first women’s circle and went on live radio to speak about my business! I am so grateful to have found Olivia at such a pivotal time in my life. I now carry a deeper sense of inner knowing and trust in my oracular wisdom, leading with aliveness and leaning into the mystery of life.'

    Hannah Marshall, UK

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