Intimacy with Life
Private intimacy and sexuality mentorship for men.
Online & In-Person.
Bespoke guidance drawing on work with over 500 clients.
Feel more pleasure. Say what you want. Let yourself be met.
Explore touch without rushing towards a finish, put words to desires you’ve struggled to share, and bring more curiosity and enjoyment into your intimate life, on your own or with a partner.
Through personalised mentoring and guided somatic practices, we work with your body, your relationships and the questions you’re actually bringing.
You’re in the right place if…
Sex has started to feel familiar and predictable. You want to discover what else you enjoy, but don’t quite know how to begin that conversation.
You can talk about your patterns in therapy, but find it harder to say what you want when someone is right there with you.
You’ve been the leader and provider forever and want to choose yourself.
You are brilliant across business and creativity but high-calibre sex and relationships keeps evading you.
You know that deep connection and simple pleasures are the real prize but struggle to stay present.
Areas we may explore:
Pleasure and your body: touch, self-pleasure, sexual challenges, feeling more comfortable in your skin.
Intimacy with other people: communicating desires, re-connecting in long-term relationships, conflicting wants, separation, presence with family.
What you want from life: bringing self understanding into action, embracing softness and primal masculine aliveness, creativity, play, direction and leadership.
Three pillars
Each mentorship explores three main pillars: somatics, sexuality and soul.
We begin with what you want support with. The practices and pace are tailored to you, with room for what you discover along the way. We regularly check in on progress, tracking what is arising and what is needed for you to reach your desired outcomes.
Somatics
Notice what happens in your body when intimacy becomes difficult.
Through guided practices, we explore how you experience sensation, tension and pleasure, so you have more to work with than an intellectual understanding of your patterns or what intimacy ‘should’ look like.
Sexuality
Explore how you like to touch and be touched, what you enjoy, and what you want to communicate.
We cultivate more primal aliveness and sensuality through self-pleasure, curiosity and learning to move at a slower pace.
Soul
What do you want a thriving intimate life to make room for?
We look at how your desires sit alongside your relationships, responsibilities and the life you want to lead. You get to watch how sex ripples out into all aspects of life.
‘I had no idea that this work would prove to be so impactful in helping me discover a much deeper physical sensuality/sexuality that I’ve been longing for, not to mention helping to reconnect me with my body.’
Dan Maiden‘I looked back through the notes I took during our first few sessions and was amazed by how far I've come since then. One of the things I loved most about working with Olivia was how tailored her approach was. Sometimes she'd guide me through a practice during a call, sometimes she'd recommend a book or podcast, and sometimes she'd suggest small lifestyle changes. There were also the voice notes that seemed to come at just the right time.’
James HaywardWhat to expect
12-24 weeks of personalised and immersive mentoring (1 x 1 hour call every 2 weeks over Zoom).
Introductory call, client prep form and reflections and resources after each session.
Voice note access via the messaging app Signal between calls.
Guided somatic, energy and meditation practices drawn from somatic inquiry, yoga philosophy, trauma-awareness, Tantra and Neo-Tantra. Mentorship also includes:
Eco-sexuality and nature connection
Creative expression
Honouring processes of change
In-person immersions are available (12 hours of 1:1 time together over 2-3 days) including bodywork, energy work, somatic tools and skills.
Investment
£1500 for 3 months // £2800 for 6 months.
(Payment plans available)
£1500 for 12 hours in-person.
I offer free 30 minute calls to all prospective clients. These are informal conversations where we explore how I can best support you and whether we are a good fit to work together.
What others say.