Becoming
Private mentorship for creatives and leaders rethinking how they want to live and work.
You are allowed to want a different life, even if you chose this one.
Make room for the work you keep imagining, the desires you keep explaining away, and the decisions you can’t keep postponing.
Explore what you want now, and begin acting on it without needing your whole future neatly explained.
Get clear on what you want to carry forward, what you’re ready to leave, and the first changes you want to make.
We make room for your ambition and the full spectrum of your humanity.
3-6 months mentorship | guided embodiment & creative practices | becoming more of you
Becoming who you really are
I am aged 23 waiting on the sofa in the hallway of No10 Downing Street for my job interview. The Prime Minister walks past and cheerily says: ‘hello’. My heart is pounding. I want the job so badly.
This was the easiest yes of my life.
I’m on a plane to New Zealand. I have flown around the world on the PM’s plane but the 48 hour journey is the most exhilarating plane ride of my life. I’m about to shed many layers and embrace life the other side of the world. I know no one and have no job lined up. I imagine I should be worried but I am ecstatically excited.
I waited 9 silent months before telling everyone… I’m leaving.
I have lived in New Zealand for 4 years. I have a full life, great friends and am a government strategist and qualified yoga teacher. I have been promoted 3 times in 4 years. I’m making more than double my London salary. I resign, leave my house and beloved French housemates. I’m experiencing a wild awakening and move to a spiritual school.
A psycho-spiritual coach walked with me through the fires of change.
I am in London, working as a Tantra practitioner. I have seen over 500 clients including men, women and couples. I have spent years studying somatics, trauma and esoteric spirituality. I’m living in Sicily with my partner and dog.
True love deserved my trust.
I am at my kitchen table, writing this.
I have claimed myself as a writer. I have been mentoring, facilitating and guiding people into who they really are for years now. I am single. I am fulfilled, at peace with my life and proud of the woman I have become.
I dug to the depths of my self-belief and listened to an inner whisper I couldn’t ignore.
I have designed a life that fits me: creatively, professionally, spiritually and emotionally.
There is no linear path. There is no outer determinator of ‘success’.
If you have ambition, drive, will and a desire to meet the mystery of life with its potential for extreme beauty and hard-earned lessons…
You ultimately become,
more of you.
Becoming
Through my life experience and work with clients I have designed a methodology that is grounded in somatic awareness, is trauma-aware, creative, erotically alive and welcoming all of your humanity.
This is a high-touch mentorship programme for the woman who is brilliant in all aspects of life and wants to pour that essential brilliance into the life she truly yearns for.
Mentorship Pillars
Each mentorship is unique but the programme will follow the same arc, keeping us focussed and available for inspiration.
The Call
Many of us experience an inner call but it gets ignored because it’s inconvenient, scary or might have ripple effects.
We’re asking: “What do you actually want, and what are you still trying to want because you’ve invested so much in it?”
We chart your intentions and what feels most important to start moving towards.
Creation
Creation is a lived experience not a final act.
You don’t need a complete vision of your next life to begin. Together, we’ll explore what matters enough to act on now, and what you need more time to understand.
I’ll be guiding you into your body, your eroticism and power. As you begin to feel more and develop greater self trust and confidence, the answers will naturally arise.
Integration
To this little voice that says: “How do I keep choosing this when the excitement wears off and other people have opinions?”
In the final chapter of the mentorship we land the embodied tools, teachings, skills and self-confidence developed over the 3-6 months to fully embody the person you are becoming.
‘Working with Olivia over a six-month period was deeply transformational. She is amazing at what she does, meeting me in my awakening process with such wisdom and presence. Her guidance is deeply embodied and rooted in lived experience, (and I always felt seen and safe to express myself.)
I developed a felt understanding of Kundalini as earth energy. This grounded my awakening and expanded my connection to eros, realising that it is so much more than sexual energy, it is life force. I now sense the awakening process as one of expansion and contraction, and am able to move through it with greater awareness and softness.
We worked through blockages in my voice and fears around expression that had been holding me back. By the end of the mentorship, I held my first women’s circle and went on live radio to speak about my business!’
Hannah Sophie Marshall, Director White Leaf Yurts'Working with Olivia was exactly what I needed at this stage of my journey. Navigating a period marked by many endings, integration, and the emergence of new beginnings, her support came at the perfect time. Over the course of three months, Olivia guided and mentored me in finding the clarity I needed to step into the next evolution of my work and service. Her guidance aligned seamlessly with the rhythm of my growth, which at times included slow, steady movement. She helped me refine my path, deepen my connection to my purpose, and embrace new approaches and perspectives to expand my core expression during this pivotal phase of my life.’
Leticia Aravena, Director Walking in BeautyBecoming is for you if…
You want MORE:
You’ve spent years building a beautiful life but feel too busy, stretched and stressed to fully enjoy it.
Reaching career milestones you once dreamt of didn’t feel worth the personal sacrifice.
You are known for your professional brilliance but don’t feel seen as your ‘real self’ or true potential as a feminine leader.
You know that the dominant cultural norms of hierarchy, control and ‘power over’ don’t work for you as a female body and don’t want to risk burning out for the sake of a corporation.
You want to feel more connected to your femininity, your eroticism and sense this is where untapped power lies.
You have undertaken extensive therapy but feel greater self love and understanding waits in the body.
You seek clarity:
You know change is knocking and want to feel confident and resourced as you juggle priorities and even bigger decisions.
You want to change careers or create a body of work that makes you feel passionate, alive and connected to the world (without selling your soul on social media).
You have huge passion, big vision and want clarity on where to point the arrow.
You’re experiencing / have experienced a rite of passage (separation, grief, pregnancy, pregnancy loss, menopause, sexual awakening) and are exploring who you are now.
You desire a rich, meaningful and erotically alive life:
You want your erotic life to feel accessible and nourishing, not something that gets scheduled in once a week.
You want to learn sustainable habits that can ignite your full expression (greater pleasure, vitality, clear thinking, creative vision).
You want to build the physical, emotional and spiritual capacity to deliver the next evolution of your work.
You want to unwind patterns of hyper-masculine striving, over-working and under-selling yourself.
You fear being seen in emerging versions of yourself and worry what other people will think or how your loved ones might react
What to expect
12-24 weeks of personalised and immersive mentoring (1 x 1 hour call every 2 weeks over Zoom).
Introductory call, client prep form and reflections and resources after each session.
Unlimited voice note access via the messaging app Signal between calls.
Guided creative, somatic and meditation practices drawn from somatic inquiry, yoga philosophy, trauma-awareness, Tantra and Neo-Tantra. Mentorship also includes:
Eco-sexuality and nature connection
Creative expression
Rituals
In-person feminine embodiment sessions are available. Please reach out to discuss.
Investment
£1500 for 3 months // £2800 for 6 months.
(Payment plans available)
If you feel drawn to work together, please contact me for a free discovery call. This is an informal chat to explore how I can best support you and whether we both feel we’re a good fit.